The old story of love and hate.

Love. As always, it's the main topic of discussion and I ain't gonna disappoint this time hahahaa but I'll try to make it interesting. The expression "if you love someone set them free blah blah blah..." yup that old and cliché saying about love which i lately find it hard to argue with. I wish others would strictly follow this rule and maybe the love planet will be a less miserable place. 

The saying actually also reflects about being unselfish, you love that person but if she or he doesn't love you anymore then just let the love go. Stop being sefish, being in love requires both parties to actually have love for each other. If not then it'll be just like a creepy stalker situation which might lead to a hostage situation & someone might just end up dead or create the Stockholm syndrome thingy... well of course this is just figuratively speaking but it has the same effect. Seriously, why would you wanna keep someone who can't love you back? That's selfish in one of its purest form. 

I've always believed that hate and love are actually two similar energies. If you can love a person, the same energy can be turned into hate and the situation of not letting a person out of love leave a relationship will drive the energy of love to hate. Don't believe me? Look around you and see how many couples you know that were so in love but aren't able to breathe the same air when the love is gone?

Having said that, I also believe that if handled efficiently that love you have doesn't necessarily be turned into hate... if you don't nurture the love and let it die then you can't turn it into hate. Hahahaha it's not as bad as it sounds but I think if managed correctly you'll be able to maintain the optimum or necessary level of love, say love between friends which will ensure the relationship stays civilized and this in return will make it easier for close people around you as well. Sometimes when we're selfish we often forget that what we do to each other in the name of "love" affects people who are close to us... be it in a good or bad or nauseating way hahahah

So yeah... that's my 2 cents on love in this post. Don't be selfish when it comes to love, be considerate and maybe you have a better chance of avoiding hating one another.