Happiness is a state of mind :)

It’s been a while..well, not exactly that long  that I’ve found some time to update my blog. Well to say that I didn’t have the time is such an understatement coz I have to admit that I did have the time in my hands but have done other stuff hahaa guilty as charged. So what have I been doing with my time? You know how they say how time flies when you’re having fun and I guess that’s what happened to me. Since the last time I blogged, sad to update that I still have my baggage with me but I guess I’ve found ways to ignore them very effectively hahaa some might wonder what the tricks are and I found my answer in a most convenient old-fashion way…I began to accept things (in my case..my baggage) yup, just a simple act of ACCEPTING J u know when people say that it’s actually easier said than done, I have to agree but not totally coz it’s not something impossible to do. Yeah..it was hard but once u get the idea into your head, it kinda slips in and believe it or not, nature will take its own course. In my journey of accepting I found that it was easier to slip into the “accepting” mode when you share your thoughts with the people you love and comfortable with. Of course telling yourself every single day helps but I find that people who truly love you for who you are already know these stuff and it’s a big relief for both you and them to know that you yourself have accepted to accept these baggage at face value. It may sound silly but I find that the more I talk about it, it was a lot easier for me to accept my baggage and the sooner the whole process sinks in, I find more peace with myself..and the best part of all this is that I stopped being angry..stopped being angry at myself, stopped being angry with my situation and I stopped thinking of “WHAT IF??” and start asking yourself the question of “WHAT NOW?” I have to warn you though that once you start asking the question of “WHAT NOW?” the journey and future can look and feel scary, but one thing for sure, I’m happy and time flies when u’re having fun J I’m happy to know that I finally accept the bitter truth that I’ve been dragging to accept and I’m happy to know that I can actually consider other options, planning of how to change my baggage to a more glamorous, perhaps branded baggage hahahaa *wishful thinking*I’m happy to know that some other options which may seemed ridiculous can actually work out and lastly I’m happy to know that my options can make other people that I love happy as well…..not in the way that they wished it could be but happy nevertheless. So yes…I’ve been a bit unhappy in my last blogs but I’m happier now. I do know that my happiness might and will cost some other people but hey, let me take my turn and be happy for now eh? so those people who are unhappy with my happiness..here’s something for you to consider, “happiness is a state of mind” and I’ve found my State…and you can feel free to join me in my State or you can also tell your unhappiness to “get the hell out” and enjoy life coz at the end of the day, life is too short to be unhappy and why not let happiness win this time yes?